Believe in Yourself & Everyone Will Believe In You
25 May 2018
Hello all. I hope you are having a beautiful week. Having self-belief can often be forgotten, however it is crucial to our happiness. Believe, achieve, receive.
Learn to Love Yourself First
You may have heard the saying; “how will anyone love you if you don’t love yourself”, which is very true. What we see and love about ourselves should also be what we want others to see in us. If you are constantly putting yourself down and pointing out your flaws, people will see them.
On the other end of the spectrum, we should not be egocentric and verbose, otherwise we will come across in a negative light. I do believe if we have had a good up bringing, we should morally be aware how to behave and act, dependent on circumstances. That doesn’t mean you should have a dual-personality, it simply means consciously adapting to your surroundings.
Find the right balance between the two. Be confident and speak words of self praise and others will recognise this. You may notice, the more confidence you carry, the more you will be complimented, as you are literally giving out a positive energy.
Believe You Can & You Will
I have previously mentioned how important it is to have self belief (see post here). The best way to truly understand this is to try it yourself. Our minds are so powerful, not all of us even realise it, so if the best place to begin is with your thoughts.
Changing the way you think – channelling as much positivity into your life as possible will lead to great things. If you believe you can do something, you will be able to do it. The same goes for if you don’t think you are capable, you won’t succeed.
Once you begin to prove to people that you are capable, you have self-belief and are motivated, they will see it in you. If you persuade someone that you can do something, chances are, they will want to watch you do it.
Good friends only want the best for us and realistically, they should be encouraging and uplifting. When others believe in you, your own levels of motivation will increase, so start sharing some of your aspirations and listen to those words of praise you need to hear.
I hope you have a lovely weekend and enjoy the bank holiday. Thank you for reading.